Fathers Support Services

Research and changes in public policy have increased awareness in the importance of a father’s presence in his child’s life. This research shows that father absence does matter and makes a significant impact on his child’s growth and development.

Catholic Charities North has developed programs through its Fathers Support Services to help fathers improve relationships with their children and become a positive influence in their lives. Current programs include the following:

* Fatherhood Groups in Lynn and Peabody
* Outreach to fathers in the community
* A group for fathers at the Essex County House of Correction in Middleton
* Workshops for young mothers to stress the importance of father involvement for their children
* Workshops and training for professionals interested in working with fathers

Programs are designed for men who have become fathers, whether intentionally or not. All fathers are encouraged to attend no matter what their educational or economic situation. Fathers are given the tools necessary to become positively involved in their children’s lives. Research clearly demonstrates that children who have a positive relationship with their fathers do better in school, have higher self-esteem, and are less likely to be depressed, and, for boys, are more likely to become responsible fathers themselves.

Fathers Groups meet weekly in eight or 12 week cycles. In an atmosphere of positive encouragement, fathers focus on five specific principles of responsibility, which include giving affection, offering gentle guidance, providing financial support to the child as well as his or her mother, demonstrating respect to the child’s mother, and setting a proud example by not participating in illegal activity such as drug or alcohol abuse. Group participants receive certificates to celebrate their participation at the end of each cycle and are encouraged to attend additional cycles or be seen in outreach counseling.

Outreach is a critical component of the Fathers Support Program. By going ‘where they are,’ staff members are able to establish a mentoring relationship with the men. Staff encourages, leads, and connects young fathers to employment, education, and other necessary resources. They are available in crisis situations and provide a father’s perspective regarding issues of child development, behavior management, and relationship concerns.

Fathers Support Services is a program of Catholic Charities North. For more information, call 781-539-2312.